I’ve been a blood donor for many years, some years more consistently than others. A couple of weeks ago when I went in, I received my pin for having donated 7 Gallons. I guess I hadn’t ever thought about how much blood I’ve given before; I go when the church has a drive and my schedule allows me to do so. I’ve always felt that it was something that was needed and it was easy to do. I love helping people and what better way to do that than give the very thing that keeps us alive? Besides, it’s a good excuse to eat cookies, right?
Until recently its been such a routine for me that I didn’t really think about it anymore once I walked out of the donation center. That is until United Blood services started sending a text message letting me know that my blood had been sent to a hospital to help a patient needing a transfusion. There is something very powerful about knowing my simple act of service really made a difference in someone’s life. Obviously, I knew all along where the blood was going, but getting the notice that it really was needed has an emotional response in me that I can’t explain. I still get chills when I get the text and I say a little prayer for the recipient.
The reason I’m telling you this is not to get recognition for donating. I already get that in the best way possible, but rather to remind you that there are people out there having a positive influence in your or someone you love’s life all the time. They do it without expecting to get a thank you or any kind of acknowledgment. It’s just who they are and what they do. I’ve never been big on recognition or awards, but I do have to admit that little text telling me my effort made a difference in someone’s life is huge.
So the next time you see someone doing some small thing they routinely do that is significant to you, let them know their efforts matter. Maybe it is your child’s teacher or your minister who is encouraging and caring. Or is it the neighbor lady who always has a smile or a hug for you? Could it be your mail carrier who takes extra care with your packages or your nurse who stays late to make sure you got the call back with the information you’ve been waiting for from your doctor? Whoever it is, let them know they made a difference. It could be the feedback they didn’t even know they needed.